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10/31/2008 10:38 AM  
Dear Moderators: 


New to our board DC posted the following statement:

"Now some of you will spend weeks of your pathetic little lives poring over the thousands of internet hits instead of your usual toys, but in the end you will learn a lot of interesting things and become a more knowledgable person for your efforts."


This is just a mere sample of the kind of rude commentary this particular poster has offered.  Personally, I was finding this poster amusing.  There was some really good banter going on with this poster.  He is clearly very intelligent with a number of interesting experiences in his life. 

But after thinking deeply about the comment above, it occurred to me that this is not the place for this.   We are a community and for the most part very cordial, save our need to vent at WotC for their policies and decisions, which I see as not only being perfectly OK but a RIGHT!

Being angry with WotC is one thing, but being rude to each other on this board is another.  I see Maxminis as the premier site for our hobby.  Most of the people here are mature and many are long-time gamers.  It is the only site I now frequent in support of my hobby.  Regretfully, this post is a request that this poster be banned from the site.  I see nothing that offers support to our hobby from him.

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10/31/2008 10:48 AM  
I second the request and refer to a post I made in his D&D & Military thread delineating his insults to others in that thread up to that point.

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10/31/2008 10:52 AM  
Quite frankly, he was rude and confrontational from the get go. I doubt this behavior would have been tolerated from myself or any of the other members of our community. Why it is tolerated from someone whose entire purpose in making an account here in the first place was to spew vitriol and foment a tsunami of rage I cannot understand. He should have been banned days ago.

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10/31/2008 1:02 PM  
I've decided that I really don't want a pet troll after all... they're very messy with all of their poo-throwing.

In all seriousness, though, what DC has done here is no different than what he has done on a number of different sites. He's done a good job of insulting us and our hobby. He doesn't play skirmish or D&D because he is 'too good' for them. If he had just stuck to posting about his mods in the Crafter's Corner, then I'd say he'd be welcome as we all have different opinions and I'm sure we all think we're right. He hasn't tried to initiate trades or bring anything truly constructive so far as I can tell. His intentions may have been 'good' but his social skills are a little lacking when dealing with those whom he is trying to instruct.

There are a number of forums across the interweb that have had the same experiences with him as we have here. I really do not wish to see MaxMinis fall into the same mess.

He is a catalyst. We are normally a group of opinionated but generally friendly people. We may not all see eye-to-eye, but I haven't seen any real insults hurled among those who regularly frequent this forum, we tend to agree to disagree. He has used blanketing terms to insult many large groups of people that include many of us.

I think that the 'feed the troll' problem has been the real problem. Because of the way that he incites us, we feel that we must respond or we are quietly letting him be 'right'. He is toying with us. He said in one post that if we wanted to find out how 'valid' his credentials are, to search online. I did so and posted a response that prompted him to claim that it was a lead on so that we would find out what we found out. This seems to be a game to him and is one that he has been playing for the past few years. I do not think that we should be a part of his game.

If he wants to insult large groups of people, that's his business. My biggest issue is that he has insulted the actions of our moderators, those that have been entrusted on this forum to keep the peace. A thread was closed because it got out of hand and he then proceeded to attack the mod in another thread. I do not think that this is acceptable. Each of us as a guest at MaxMinis has to accept that the mods are in charge for a reason. You guys have been here for the long haul and have proven time and again that you are worthy of the title of Moderator. He seems unwilling to accept the authority of the moderators.

If he can be civil, I have no problem with his differing opinions. That civility thing seems to be an issue, though.

If the mods think that he should be banned, I will stand behind their decision. At the very least I feel that he should be given a warning and perhaps a second chance, but I've been told that I'm way too nice.

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10/31/2008 2:08 PM  
You are very nice RK! Good post though. Very well said.

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11/01/2008 5:48 AM  
I'm here because I like D&D prepainted figures which is the main point of this site. I posted a thread about "D&D in the Military", becaue this topic was mentioned here, and the record will show that some people liked my commments and thought they were accurate, and some people didn't. Some people called be a troll out of hand, followed by several others. I simply returned the insults, and since I know all about the figures and the game, and probably far more about the lore and literature that inspired the game, I am able to more than "hold my own", among people who deliberately insulted a new member personally, before I said anything to any of you. In fact, I probably read more about the game than most of you, for example, I knew about the new WoTC "there are no good dragons species anymore so you can kill them all" policy when no one else seemed to. A mere troll should not know more about all of this than most of you, now should he?

If the moderators chastised the first namecallers (which includes some of you responding to this thread as well), I would have never said 'cruel' things in retaliation, and I would probably be deeply involved in trading and converting threads now, instead of reading the insults of truly hateful people who evidently spent hours poring over the internet is their zeal to 'hurt' me somehow. I think that fits the description of a 'pathetic' way to spend lives very well. As several people have noticed, my replies to your mindless hate were often crafted to be quite humorous and entertaining.

If people are whining now that I have not been banned already, (which seems to be the gist of this thread), or even sternly warned, it may be due to the fact that the moderators are obviously ADULTS , like me, and the people screaming for banning are probably the same immature children that called that new member a troll after his first post in the first place.  At least, I hope that people who behave that way are only children.
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11/01/2008 5:51 AM  
Why can't you just be nice? lets all get along and stop the third grade name calling.

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11/01/2008 12:43 PM  
Hi DC,

The reality is you were belittling the D&D game from your beginning post. Your comments were offensive to many of us who have played this game for years even decades. At first, I found the banter amusing, but your comments became increasingly more disparaging and combative. It was at this time, I realized that as a community we really don't need this. Ironically, I agree with many of your points, particullary about the history of D&D and Dragons. However, you clearly have no respect for D&D or those that play the game. With this attitude, I wondered why you were here. If it was just to trade, then you should have stuck to that. Did you really think you could win friends on a board devoted to Dungeons & Dragons by being insulting to the game? If so, then you may have a 16+ intelligence, but your wisdom score must be closer to a 3.

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11/01/2008 5:31 PM  
Posted By mazra on 11/01/2008 12:43 PM
Hi DC,

The reality is you were belittling the D&D game from your beginning post. Your comments were offensive to many of us who have played this game for years even decades. At first, I found the banter amusing, but your comments became increasingly more disparaging and combative. It was at this time, I realized that as a community we really don't need this. Ironically, I agree with many of your points, particullary about the history of D&D and Dragons. However, you clearly have no respect for D&D or those that play the game. With this attitude, I wondered why you were here. If it was just to trade, then you should have stuck to that. Did you really think you could win friends on a board devoted to Dungeons & Dragons by being insulting to the game? If so, then you may have a 16+ intelligence, but your wisdom score must be closer to a 3.

Mazra





My initial post about "D&D in the Military" was received enthusiastically by some and apparently angered others enough to start the namecalling.  It did not anger everyone, and some lamented that I was right about the rules being unrealisitc for a variety of reason.  

So you found it amusing that a handful of the most immature people called me a troll before I did anything to them but make some sincere observations that did not bother a number of other players, some even agreeing with me?  

I was genuinely surprised at the attacks.  But when you are attacked, and the moderators do nothing, what can you do but defend yourself?

I'm not bothered by this.  I am having pleasant conversations  on the crafting thread, (despite unfounded attacks by the same crowd following me there) somand I believe in time, many people will benefit from some of my ideas.  My contacts with Chinese figure manufacturer's might even help with this "Guild Business" in creating a line of unofficial D&D figures if WotC patronage of the game wanes or dies.

But you are right, I have "no respect" for the thankfully few "D&D players" here who call a new member names merely for stating an opinion that even other "D&D players ACTUALLY AGREED WITH so it really wasn't as inflammatory as you imagined, until I was personally attacked.  

Some people have even confided that a lot of D&D rules are dumb, just as I have said, and ignore them in their local play, so I am fully justified in my observations.

Perhaps some of you are embarrassed now by the record of your behavior.   

This isn't my fault.  The record is clear.  I didn't start the namecalling, some of the gamers here did.  I came here to talk about minis, maybe trade minis , maybe buy minis.  And if not off-topic, I will be happy to continue discussing how the rules could be more realistic if people wish to.
 
And you couldn't resist hurling another little insult, could you?  (wisdom 3)

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11/02/2008 12:06 AM  
I guess it's a good thing that I came to this conversation later than I could have . . . the way I've been feeling this past week (cranky, surely, ornery, and just down right pissy), I might have had a long diatribe about this topic . . .

While I over-heard some conversation about this DC, I did check out his posts.

At first I thought his posts were well thought out, if not the long-argued complaint of realism in a high fantasy-based game.

I was amused at he had never seen D&D sold at AAFES, while I myself had bought several 2nd Edition D&D books at the Malmstrom Base Exchange. I also recall seeing books available at the Exchanges at Rhein Mein, Leighton Barracks and Giebelstadt AAF. I let his statement pass without comment since that was in the late 80s, and I had not visited an AAFES store in some time.

As for playing D&D in Iraq, not having been deployed to Iraq (I missed Desert Shield by 6 months), I cannot tell first hand of any D&D games having occurred or not. I do, however recall news articles of gaming kits being assembled and having been sent oversees. Having been stationed at an Air Force Base and an Army Air Force post, and having played D&D at both locations as well as being deployed into the field, I think we can assume it might be played at anywhere a serviceman/woman has dice to roll.

So, while his post may have been inaccurate, nit-picking and ranting, I did not see anything initially insulting or degrading. He was stating his opinions which, fortunately some, had choosen to argue with point and counter point. From there on, it went downhill.

I don't know DC (except as in the publisher of my favourite comic book title), so I'm not sticking up for him out of some loyalty, just what I have observed.

Oh, and for the record, DC . . . I had taken to walking to the Rec Center on base carrying my D&D books and finding players that way . . .


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11/02/2008 4:04 AM  
Posted By Wolfgang on 11/01/2008 5:51 AM
Why can't you just be nice? lets all get along and stop the third grade name calling.


I coudn't agree more, and we should all know now who started the namecalling in the first place.  But I find it odd that you are the one saying this considering the last previous 'namecalling' was YOUR  post in another thread.

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11/02/2008 4:31 AM  
Hi DC,

As the title of this thread indicates, it was your demeaning, belittling, disparaging, and simply rude commentary that is the issue.

IT DOES NOT BELONG ON THIS BOARD!

If you think you can come here and refer to the game as a "bunch of silly nonsense" and not expect the vast majority of the posters on this board who play Dungeons & Dragon to respond in anger, clearly shows a lack of wisdom on your part.

Don't kid yourself. YOU STARTED THIS! You may not have made any personal attacks to begin with, but you clearly attacked the game in general. This board is a safe-haven for those that play the game. The posters on this board will defend it and attack those that attack it. You have a military background. Did you really think you could attack an enemy zone and not be counter-attacked?

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11/02/2008 4:43 AM  
Posted By Qucalion of Celene on 11/02/2008 12:06 AM
I guess it's a good thing that I came to this conversation later than I could have . . . the way I've been feeling this past week (cranky, surely, ornery, and just down right pissy), I might have had a long diatribe about this topic . . .

While I over-heard some conversation about this DC, I did check out his posts.

At first I thought his posts were well thought out, if not the long-argued complaint of realism in a high fantasy-based game.

I was amused at he had never seen D&D sold at AAFES, while I myself had bought several 2nd Edition D&D books at the Malmstrom Base Exchange. I also recall seeing books available at the Exchanges at Rhein Mein, Leighton Barracks and Giebelstadt AAF. I let his statement pass without comment since that was in the late 80s, and I had not visited an AAFES store in some time.

As for playing D&D in Iraq, not having been deployed to Iraq (I missed Desert Shield by 6 months), I cannot tell first hand of any D&D games having occurred or not. I do, however recall news articles of gaming kits being assembled and having been sent oversees. Having been stationed at an Air Force Base and an Army Air Force post, and having played D&D at both locations as well as being deployed into the field, I think we can assume it might be played at anywhere a serviceman/woman has dice to roll.

So, while his post may have been inaccurate, nit-picking and ranting, I did not see anything initially insulting or degrading. He was stating his opinions which, fortunately some, had choosen to argue with point and counter point. From there on, it went downhill.

I don't know DC (except as in the publisher of my favourite comic book title), so I'm not sticking up for him out of some loyalty, just what I have observed.

Oh, and for the record, DC . . . I had taken to walking to the Rec Center on base carrying my D&D books and finding players that way . . .


Good post, but from the stations you mentioned, it seems pretty clear you were in the Airforce, or possibly one of the few Army Liaisions on Air Force Bases.  Yes, I seem to recall D&D books at OVERSEAS bases, but not in the U.S. and in recent times there seems to be more and more demons and such that probably makes it unlikely in the very "Christian" United States, you are not going to see what we did in Europe which is a far more liberal place where many Churches have been converted to discos (one not far from Ramstein AFB as I recall).  I believe AAFES HQs is still in Texas, heart of the "Bible Belt" and although WotC Star Wars figures are currently sold in the base where i am stationed now, NO D&Ds are, and it is surely because of all the devils and demons, or even dragons, which bothers a lot of fundamental type Christians.  I know, they attack me regularly on forums due to my next book that shows through archaeological and linguistic sources that the Biblical Yahweh saw his origins as a Cannanite Dragon God of Storms and Floods.

I have always been in front line Army combat type units, I was originally a 19D Recon guy and later when a Field Historian, still with the tactical units.  And there is a different 'culture' among these guys and  I can honestly say I never saw D&D played by them, though some played Warhammer and numerous historical wargames.  And being a historical wargamer myself, I always sought out gamers at every base.  Yeah, if I spent my Desert Storm time in a rear echelon unit living in the Khobar Towers Apartments in S.A., then yes, I don't doubt there may have been some D&D going on.  But I was referring to the real "Warfighters" as we call them today.     I still would feel uncomfortable being seen by someone like the Cheif of Staff, who is my rater, with plastic dragons and warriors in hand, playing with a bunch of teenagers, though I don't mind showing fellow "gamers" my figure collection and discussing and even  playing   "what really would happen"  if humans tried to fight a large intelligent dragon, without all the D&D saving rules/points to make it possible to unrealistically defeat such a creature.
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11/02/2008 7:40 AM  
I coudn't agree more, and we should all know now who started the namecalling in the first place. But I find it odd that you are the one saying this considering the last previous 'namecalling' was YOUR post in another thread.


What i find odd is that your mom lets you stay online for so long.

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Posted By Wolfgang on 11/02/2008 7:40 AM
I coudn't agree more, and we should all know now who started the namecalling in the first place. But I find it odd that you are the one saying this considering the last previous 'namecalling' was YOUR post in another thread.


What i find odd is that your mom lets you stay online for so long.

*snicker*  I couldn't help myself . . .

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Droned By DC on 11/02/2008 4:43 AM

Good post, but from the stations you mentioned, it seems pretty clear you were in the Airforce, or possibly one of the few Army Liaisions on Air Force Bases.  Yes, I seem to recall D&D books at OVERSEAS bases, but not in the U.S.

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I have always been in front line Army combat type units, I was originally a 19D Recon guy and later when a Field Historian, still with the tactical units.  And there is a different 'culture' among these guys and  I can honestly say I never saw D&D played by them, though some played Warhammer and numerous historical wargames.  And being a historical wargamer myself, I always sought out gamers at every base.
Yes, I was in the Air Force, and I spent two years in Germany performing Tactical Weather Support for the 4th Aviation Brigade, 3rd Infantry Division which meant I deployed at Brigade Level.  For those that don't understand what that means, is that while a 11B (Rifleman) has approximately 8 seconds to live during a full scale conventional battle (as in classic battlefield conditions).  I was far enough back that I had about 8 minutes survivability.Â

This is to establish my meagre credibility with this topic.  While deployed in some German sugar beet field in full MOPP gear recording weather observations, I had the opportunity to see folks, both Army and Air Force playing D&D.  And for the record, Malmstrom AFB, was, is, and ever has been in the CONUS . . . specifically Montana.Â

I have seen many role-playing games being played in the military.  MERP, Arduin, Call of Cthulhu, and even Twilight 2000 (which is really surreal playing in Germany . . .) .Â

Babbled By DC on 11/02/2008 4:43 AM

I believe AAFES HQs is still in Texas, heart of the "Bible Belt" and although WotC Star Wars figures are currently sold in the base where i am stationed now, NO D&Ds are, and it is surely because of all the devils and demons, or even dragons, which bothers a lot of fundamental type Christians.  I know, they attack me regularly on forums due to my next book that shows through archaeological and linguistic sources that the Biblical Yahweh saw his origins as a Cannanite Dragon God of Storms and Floods.

Interesting . . . as I am an avid player of Dungeons and Dragons as well as a "fundamental type Chrsitian", specifically a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  I see a small wonder why you are "attacked" on these boards.  Because you are simply attacking the readers of those forums on a whole-scale approach.

In your above statement you are attacked peoples fundamental faith.

In previous statements you are attacking someone's favoured pasttime.

So far, you've attacked people's Religion and Gaming.  Next thing you know you'll be insulting American Military Veterans . . . oh wait . . . you have:

Drooled By DC on 11/02/2008 4:43 AM

Yeah, if I spent my Desert Storm time in a rear echelon unit living in the Khobar Towers Apartments in S.A., then yes, I don't doubt there may have been some D&D going on.  But I was referring to the real "Warfighters" as we call them today.     I still would feel uncomfortable being seen by someone like the Cheif of Staff . . .
Real "Warfighters"?

"Cheif of Staff"?

Either you are fabricating your experience or you are incredibly arrogant and stupid.  I'm sure there are those who are betting on all of the above.

Those who truly understand the military understand that they are part of a whole, and everyone serves a part.  The term "real warfighters" is an offense to everyone who has ever served.  You are denigrating their service to this country.  Whether they be riflemen or recruiters.  Cooks or captains.  Pilots or operations.Â

Oh, and in case you believe that this is coming from a REMF . . . this is an almost direct quote from a former supervisor who served multiple tours with SOWT.Â


I see the issue most readers have with you.  It is your attempts to establish yourself in some sort of non-existant heirachy of knowledge or expertise.  Everyone on this board has had a variety of experiences, whether real life or game-wise that you are ignoring.  Sometimes someone will simply state that they served in the military, or wrote some article or established a business, and leave it at that.  You, sir, are boisterously bragging.Â


And when my next book comes out . . .I will be sure to explore this type of "gamer"



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